A woman wants an abortion?
Well, it's her body, her right to choose. Don't badger her! Don't try to counsel her against it! How dare you interfere in something so personal?!
A woman wants to feed her newborn on formula?
She must be given a "talking-to" and shamed for her awful, toxic choice. After all, though we must grudgingly accept that the final decision of how to feed their babies is up to mothers, "it's our job to educate them on the best option."